Home Cooking: Is it Really That Hard? 4

Have you ever felt overwhelmed at the idea of switching from the standard American diet (or even the standard American lifestyle)? When I share something on social media about cooking from scratch or how to make what some people think is a very simple dish, there are always a few people who can’t believe this is a hurdle for some. And yet, I know from comments and messages that cooking at home is a struggle for many of my readers.

Cooking at home may have become a lost art in the past couple of generations, but it's not HARD.

Are people really overwhelmed by home cooking ?

It’s been quite awhile since a reader named Amy asked that question, but I responded:

Amy, absolutely! We have a generation (or two!) of people who had access to so many convenience foods that they just didn’t learn. No fault of theirs, but they don’t have the skill set, they just don’t know how. My mission is to change that. Join me?

Further conversation on Facebook brought forth a couple of stories from readers who grew up in the era of convenience foods but came to real food as adults. Some snippets:

I still struggle trying to figure out what to make for dinner after a long work day. It’s hard when you’re dead tired and your family is asking what’s for dinner. It’s so easy to just grab fast food or ready made. But I find that when I cook the food my son enjoys dinner a bit more. It’s a struggle but definitely worth it.

My mom very rarely cooked and when she did it was noodles with butter. We often didn’t have food in the house. I would spend hours in the store marveling at all the food. I would read recipes on the back of everything that had one. When I was 7 years old I went to Safeway and asked one of the people that worked there if I could have the stuff to make Thanksgiving dinner for my family. They hooked me up, the lady even wrote down directions for making everything. That was the first time I ever made dinner and the best experience of my life. I thought the food was amazing and to this day I still remember it being good. I still find myself perusing recipes and menus and cooking most days. It gives me a kind of peace knowing that no one I know will be hungry because I can feed them.

… we all start somewhere. For me it was more about focusing on time management and not taking on too much at once. Start with one dinner. Just one dinner. And maybe double it so you can use the leftovers for everyone’s lunch the next day. Don’t try to compare yourself to the Paleo Mom that has learned to live without flour. Just roll with your own journey; enjoy it.

Cooking at home may have become a lost art in the past couple of generations, but it's not HARD.

Perhaps the more important question from Amy:

So, Attainable Sustainable, how can I help?

Yes! That’s what I’m talking about. We’ve got a whole lot of people out there in the world who just don’t know how to cook (or garden or raise chickens or sew…) and it’s not because they are faulty or inept, it’s because society has shifted priorities. Those traditional skills have fallen through the cracks. I think the biggest thing we can all do is stop judging, to realize that sure, maybe some people will choose to stick with convenience foods and that’s their choice. But the people who just don’t know that there are other—better—alternatives? Or who know but don’t know how to begin to change? Those are the people that might just be wishing for a little assist.

So let’s talk about cooking from scratch.

The most obvious way for us to help is to pass on our knowledge. Easy enough if you’re teaching your own kids in your house. It’s harder to reach random people, though.

  • Can you invite some acquaintances to your place for a cooking session?
  • Teach a class at your local adult education center?
  • Volunteer at a high school to do a cooking course?
  • Give a gift basket with ingredients to make your specialty, complete with lessons?

Teach yourself

If you’re unsure about cooking from scratch and don’t know anyone who can guide you, you might have to dig in and teach yourself. Let me assure you: You will make mistakes. It happens, even to the best of us. But dive in and give it a try. The following recipes are easy to make and don’t require any special equipment or skill. If you can chop veggies, use a stove or oven, and follow directions, you’ll have dinner on the table in no time!

Now, purists will note that some of these recipes include canned tomatoes or canned beans. So what? Except for the bpa issue, these are healthy ingredients without a lot of additives that can help you on your way to cooking at home. [See this link for companies that use bpa-free cans.] Once you’ve mastered the homemade meal, you can tackle using dry beans or fresh tomatoes. You may not ever want to take that step. I’m okay with that. Using some single ingredient canned items in homemade meals is surely a better option than take-out.

Get cooking!


Four Cheese Baked Macaroni [104 Homestead]

6-Ingredient White Chicken Chili [Attainable Sustainable]

Summer Squash and Pasta [Schneiderpeeps]

Easy Homemade Alfredo Sauce [Common Sense Homesteading]

Easy Chicken Lo Mein [Life Made Sweeter]

Sausage Lentil Soup Recipe [Attainable Sustainable]

Baked Egg Muffins [Timer Creek Farm]

Five Meals from One Pot of Beans [Schneiderpeeps]

Mini Pizza Quinoa Bites [Iowa Girl Eats]

Easy Roasted Chicken [Homespun Seasonal Living]

Broccoli Hush Puppies [104 Homestead]

Easy Hummus [Attainable Sustainable]

Sloppy Joes [Common Sense Homesteading]

Bacon Mushroom Spinach Frittata [Damn Delicious]

Turkey Chili [Dear Crissy]

Sheperd’s Pie [Schneiderpeeps]

Quesadillas [Common Sense Homesteading]

Chicken Chili [Timber Creek Farm]

Sweet Potato Hash [A Sweet Pea Chef]

Roast Chicken [104 Homestead]

Beef and Broccoli [Life Made Sweeter]

Easy Crockpot Chili [Family Fresh Meals]

Fried Rice [104 Homestead]

Meat Loaf Muffins [Schneiderpeeps]

Easy Alfredo Sauce [Common Sense Homesteading]

Know someone who wants to make a change but is feeling overwhelmed? The Kitchen Counter Cooking School by Kathleen Flinn is truly a gem.

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4 thoughts on “Home Cooking: Is it Really That Hard?

  • marina Sharts

    Crock pot cooking is an easy way to have a hot meal waiting for you. I see them at yard sales all the time.I used to prep peeling potatoes and veggies while cleaning up the kitchen after supper. thaw meet in frig or cook 2-3 meals at once and keep in frig. We do more quick stuff like sausage, ham slices. I always make a double or triple batch of meat balls and freeze for swedish, meatballs, spaghetti and meatball subs/. Taste of Home magazine is a good resource for quick meals too,

  • Lisa

    I’m one of those who never learned to cook. I came from a dysfunctional home with an alcoholic father. I had to figure out how to feed myself and siblings and I knew I could read directions on boxes (didn’t know about cook books)… that is the only way we ate… and to me that was “home cooking”. I didn’t learn until I was 30 that I’m dyslexic, so that has added to my challenge with reading recipes… I literally have to read them over and over and over as I’m cooking and read it again at each step and then I STILL make mistakes with “….wait, that said Tsp, not Tbs??” Oh no! 🙁 Cooking from “scratch” is overwhelming, to say the least, frustrating and exhausting. What you think is “easy”, many times just confounds me… maybe it’s just a mental block, but still… that’s my challenge. I HATE cooking with a passion. I have tried SO hard though over the years since I have my own children… I’ve made the attempt. Much to my joy, my daughter has figured out how to read COOK BOOKS and she enjoys experimenting in the kitchen. Just thought I’d share my view for those of you who are asking. Thanks for letting me share. And, thanks for sharing your tips and easy recipes. 🙂

    • Kris Bordessa Post author

      I think there are LOTS of people who are coming at cooking with similar frustrations. Learning to cook straight out of a cookbook is harder than learning *from someone, and clearly harder for someone who is dyslexic. I’m glad that your daughter has started dabbling! Consider pointing her to some of the cooking shows or YouTube videos she might like, too.

  • Charlotte Anderson

    For myself, my cooking abilities have improved as I have gotten older. My husband and I have been married over 30 years. When we first got married, I swear I did not know that pinto beans would swell. So, I put a whole bag in a small pot. Well we ended up with several pots of beans. Don’t be afraid to try and 30 years from now you may have a funny story about the “magic bean pot”.